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Sue Yong, a descendant of Qing Dynasty’s poet Zheng Banqiao and of the 19th generation of our Zheng family ancestry, was born into a wealthy family in Fuzhou’s Gutian in 1917. He first sailed to Malaya in 1937 and returned to China in 1941 to marry the 17-year-old Swee Mei. Sadly, their first child died at infancy in 1943. Sue Yong then sailed back together with Swee Mei in 1947 to settle down in Sepang, Malaya. Life was hard as pig farmers there, with Swee Mei suffering several miscarriages. They lived in poverty and under constant fear of the communist insurgents which Malaya was fighting at this time. As the pig farm was located far away from home, their livelihood was severely affected by the many curfews imposed by the security forces. When another daughter was born in 1957, like so many other Sepang residents then, they had no choice but to give the child up for adoption by the Convent of the Holy Infant Jesus, Seremban. The child passed on three months after adoption. In 1958, they relocated to Yong Peng, living initially in a small-rented room, where Sue Yong toiled as a labourer and timber logger whilst Swee Mei stood by Sue Yong throughout and cared for the seven children. In 1983, after obtaining the Malaysian government’s permission, they finally revisited their ancestral village, Yong An, Gutian to pay their respects to their departed parents, and to collect and bury their relics next to one another. Despite adversity and indigence, Sue Yong always prioritised their children’s education, and would do anything for them. Alas due to Alzheimer’s disease and dementia, Sue Yong went missing following a walk in Yong Peng on 23 May 2000. Swee Mei passed away 10 years ago today. Though we are not rich, our lives have been enriched by them. We, their children, grandchildren and great grandchildren pay tribute to this remarkable couple and are eternally grateful to them. They will always remain in our hearts forever.


Never forgotten and forever missed, loved and remembered by

  • Sons
  • Robin Tan
    Datuk Lr Roger Tan
  • Daughters-in-law
  • Ling Gung Sang
    Datin Wong Ee Teng
  • Daughters
  • Yu Sui Hua @ Tan Mei Ying (deceased)
    Tan Moi Yang
    Tan Bin Eng
    Mary Agatha Tan Ah Siew (deceased)
    Tan Lang Ee
    Tan Soi Ing
  • Sons-in-law
  • Ting Koo Hock (deceased)
    Lin Choon Fook (deceased)
    Wong Hooi Ming

    Hee Heng Kong
  • Grandsons
  • David Tan
    Lr Joel Tan
    Timothy Tan
    Lin Chee Keong
    Lr Winston Wong
    Edwin Wong
    Rojeam Hee
    Lr Anlan Hee
    Ting Kong Kwee
  • Granddaughters-in-law
  • Lee Siew Chee
    Stephanie Ong


    Lr Charmaine Seah
    Loh Hui Yi
  • Granddaughters
  • Rachel Tan
    Claudia Tan
    Dr Lin Lih Keong
    Lr Angeline Wong
    Dr Vinvie Hee
    Ting Chong Yeok
    Ting Chong Kam
    Ting Chong Jen
  • Grandsons-in-law
  • Dr R Kartik

    Dr Goodwin Yong
    Pas Caleb Yam
    Lee Choon Teck
    Goh Chin Sin
    Wong Pau Khoon
    Tham Kok Woon
  • Great Grandsons
  • Clement Tan
    Luke Tan
    Nathaniel Wong
    Andrew Wong
    Kieren Francis Yong
    Elijah Yam
    Daniel Yam
    Jaden Lee
  • Great Granddaughters
  • Kearia Yong
    Beth Yam
    Liv Aria Wong
    Sherlyn Lee
    Evelyn Lee

Of Love and Tears

In blood sweat and toil, You built a family from the soil. In hunger pain and fear, You hacked a way through for those dear. From a time so far but yet still near, We remember you through the years. Today the song of your grandchildren’s children we hear, From your labour of love and tears.

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